WholeMan
Because you deserve a whole life.
Is this you?
You grew up without emotionally present, grounded men.
Your “successes” leave you feeling empty, disconnected.
You never get what you want from your sexual partner.
You can’t connect to the emotions of excitement, passion, joy.
Your fear, sorrow, and anger are unacceptable.
You were taught that your desire and sexuality is dangerous.
Either:
Everyone in your life says “you’re such a nice guy.”
OR
Everyone is afraid of you.
You know there is more sex, love, adventure and power than this.
You’ve wondered if this life is even worth it.
You diminish your desires for the sake of everyone else.
WholeMan is a Recovery Mission
-A recovery of the parts of you that were shamed, exiled, buried, or forgotten.
-A recovery of your power, your softness, your sexuality, your intuition, your voice.
-A recovery of your awareness, beliefs, behavior, emotions and desires.
-A recovery of your intelligence and intuition.
-A recovery of the man underneath the performance.
WholeMan is…
WholeMan is a return to wholeness — to the being you were before you began doing and performing to earn value.
WholeMan is an invitation to open vulnerability, powerful authenticity, curious experimentation, courageous action, shameless presence.
WholeMan is the integration of strength and softness, power and peace, presence and being.
WholeMan is the remembering that you were never broken, only covered.
WholeMan is the journey from fragmentation to fullness.
WholeMan is awareness embodied — the meeting of truth and tenderness.
WholeMan is an invitation to stop striving and start being.
WholeMan is not a destination; it’s a call to journey.
WholeMan is a space where men are seen, heard, and witnessed.
WholeMan is the fire where illusion burns and authenticity emerges.
WholeMan is companionship on the path toward your truest self.
WholeMan is the process of becoming both grounded and free.
WholeMan is the conversation between shadow and light.
WholeMan is presence in action.
WholeMan is a remembering — not of who you were told to be, but of who you already are.
WholeMan is the sacred acceptance of light and shadow within.
WholeMan is the breath between “I am” and “becoming.”
WholeMan is a way of living guided by curiosity rather than fear.
WholeMan is curiosity about fear.
WholeMan is a space to intimately connect.
WholeMan is a call to reflection, observation, and acceptance.
Wholeman is presence over performance.
WholeMan is clarity, compassion, and courage in motion.
WholeMan is not…
WholeMan is not a performance or perfection.
WholeMan is not fixing or being fixed.
WholeMan is not a system of external requirements.
WholeMan is not advice-giving.
WholeMan is not a hierarchy.
WholeMan is not pretending to have the answers.
WholeMan is not suppression.
WholeMan is not avoidance of pain.
WholeMan is not Lone Wolfing.
WholeMan is not macho, dominance, force, bravado or “toughen up.”
WholeMan is not striving to be enough or earning worth.
WholeMan is not proving anything to anyone.
WholeMan is not about being good.
WholeMan is not masking our true emotion or desire.
WholeMan is not shame.
WholeMan is not resistance.
WholeMan is not an escape from your shadow.
WholeMan is not diminishing your desire.
WholeMan is not becoming someone new.
WholeMan is not chasing a future self.
WholeMan is not dwelling on your past.
WholeMan is not speed or urgency.
WholeMan is not violence.
WholeMan is not self-abandonment.
WholeMan is not the absence or deletion of fear.
